Last year when my son was eight, we found ourselves in the grip of some very compelling grief; I would try to help bring perspective and compassion into any and every discussion or emotion. This was especially true in the face of our personal tragedy, particularly when a person you love dearly passes away. “How could this happen?” “Why did God take her away?” These and similar thoughts would surface.
In those tricky times, I would help my son recall former times when he had been absolutely sure he would never get over something, never forgive, and never forget. He was usually amazed and sometimes could barely recall the incidents. Of course, some were still big (like the little boy who squashed a frog, riding his bike), but most had become softer with time. It’s good to know that you can have an open heart and not be crushed by it. It’s challenging enough for an adult to weather the huge storms with faith and trust; it’s much more (times a god-zillion) with less experience from which to draw (as children). In life, the road will bend, and it’s good to be prepared for it.
Most of us believe in our eternal nature and sense our oneness with all that is. We trust in ongoing well-being and have the capacity to understand our children’s (or other family and friends) sorrow and strongly hold the light for him or her. It’s an extraordinary thing to be human and to be more than that as well. Take the time to be ready for the big challenges in life by maintaining your spiritual practice; meditation, prayer, yoga…whatever that looks like for you. When the tears come…and they will, let them flow through you like a clear stream and know God is always right where you are.
Namaste,
















May 8, 2012
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